It’s the month and season of love. And while it’s usual for us to think about this valentines as only being for romance, red roses and strangely scary stuffed animals – it really should be about love in ALL it’s forms. And so here are our most loved Self Love tips for life coaches.
Love is a feeling that cannot be hidden and therefore, you need to know how to show it in the best way. Today we are going to talk about 10 self-love tips for this Valentine’s Day which will help you feel good about yourself and practice self-love every day.
Self-Love Tips for Life Coaches on Valentines Day
Give yourself a break. If you are harder on yourself than anyone you know it’s totally time to give that up. It’s not serving you or making you a better person or life coach. Let’s move on shall we?
Invest in yourself and your business. No money spent on you for something that brings you greater confidence or a better and more enhanced way of working with your clients is ever wasted. Ever.
Get yourself a wee bit more organised; or even totally organised. Might sound super boring but if you can manage to get yourself out from under that pile of paperwork/notes/unread books/general gunk and stuff, you will have so much more creative and loving flow in your life and business.
Take stock. Of your surroundings, relationships, commitments and influences as a whole. Promise yourself that now is the time to only engage with people and things that fully serve you and help you be your best as a person and a life coach. Gently let go of the rest.
Do something you love to do or even think you might love to do. If you’ve always wanted to try yoga, web design, cake decorating or scuba diving, show yourself some love by delving into your curiosity and doing it. Life’s for living. And the best life coaches LIVE.
Give up worrying about numbers. Stop refreshing your Instagram feed to see how many hearts you have. Let your Facebook likes grow organically. Sure. Work at it. But stop worrying about it.
Sleep. Seriously. If you’re feeling overwhelmed and frazzled about everything you need to do for yourself and your clients find some time to just lie down and rest. Fall asleep for as long as you need to so your body can recharge. Sometimes it’s the most simple but loving thing you can do to ‘reset.’
Ask for what you want. Really want. Most of all of yourself. Prepare yourself for getting it.
Show yourself the kindness you show others. Especially your clients. If it’s good for them honey – it sure is good for you too. Buy yourself flowers. Write a lovely note encouraging you and tuck it away ready to read again on your birthday. Talk positively to yourself.
Enough with the comparisons. While your comparing your bank balance, client list, wardrobe, website or entire life and business to someone else, worrying yourself inside out you’re not as ‘good’ as them – they’re living it. You can’t have their business or life. You’ve got something better – yours. There’s nothing to compare. She’s incomparable. You’re incomparable. Love and leave.
Happy Valentines week Beautiful You.